Went for spa this evening, met an aunty there.according to her, she fell down 2 weeks ago n hurt her back. she said doc asked her not to do house work thus she is now very worried cos her son is getting married soon......so i asked why didn't she ask her future daugther in law to help her . She, in fact, gave me a very " mischievous " smile n said " youngster nowadays mostly won't help elderly in house work, i dare not to demand !"

hmm.....think about it. Will this happened when we are in our old age? When we are old with all sorts of health problem, will the younger generations take care of us? will they help without us asking? or will they wont help even with us asking?

i may be more to buddhism, believe in what people call " cause and effect " ( yin guo ) . i know i can't foresee the future but i do wanna believe it , in a way which , if i do something bad now, it will come back to me sooner or later. thus i have tried hard not to do something bad, not to hurt other people, not to owe people and etc. But , i am still an ordinary person, i do make mistakes , do hurt people... and for that, please forgive me. ( out of the story i wanna tell !! haha )

i just wanna you all to spend some time and do this. put yourself in other people's shoes, ( especially the one who u are very upset or mad with ! ) and feel how he or she will feels.

and honey, if u see the shortcoming of him or her, something which always pisses you off, please make sure you won't do it to others in the future !!

sweet dreams!